I think half the issues are that players were expected to play a certain way which is why despite almost everyone hating him - Abdel Adrian is still presented everywhere as 'the' Bhaalspawn. Bioware is only SLIGHTLY better theses days at not assuming everyone is playing default human Mchuman man. My biggest want from a rewritten or gutted ToB would be for the players actions do actually mean something, I really hate all the 'oh no you might have fought to save this city and won but everyone died anyways!'. Let me save everyone. Let me have the damn wish fulfillment. (see also why DA2 is the only gave to make me throw down my controller and refuse to finish).